After giving away far too many barely-used bottles of regret, I’ve learned that picking the perfect perfume isn’t something to rush. The process is as much about patience as it is about instinct.
What Makes You Choose a Perfume?
Is it the bottle’s mesmerizing beauty, the ad’s captivating colors, or maybe just the mood you’re in when you walk through the store’s doors? Choosing a perfume can be a deeply personal experience—or an overwhelming one. For me, sticking to the same scent for months feels stifling, so I’m always on the hunt for something new that feels like “me.”
How to find a Signature Perfume
If you’re ready to find a signature scent you’ll love and actually finish, here are seven tips to help you choose a perfume that speaks to you—and only you.
1. Let Your Nose Do the Work—Not Your Eyes
A stunning bottle and a chic ad campaign might catch your attention, but they won’t tell you what the perfume actually smells like. Advertising is designed to sell you a dream, not necessarily a scent that works for you. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and let your nose be the judge.
2. Don’t Shop for Perfume When You’re Tired
If you’re exhausted or feeling out of sorts, your ability to pick up on subtle notes and differentiate scents will take a nosedive. Perfume shopping is best done when you’re well-rested, in a good mood, and ready to give the experience your full attention.
3. Go Alone (or Bring the Right Companion)
Perfume shopping with kids or a disinterested friend? Recipe for disaster. A rushed, distracted vibe can lead to snap decisions you’ll regret. Instead, go solo or invite someone who genuinely cares—like a supportive partner or a bestie who loves giving honest feedback.
4. Test, Wait, Then Decide
Perfumes evolve over time as their top, middle, and base notes unfold. Spray a tester on your wrist, walk around for at least 30 minutes, and let the fragrance settle. Only then will you know if it truly works with your skin chemistry.
5. Stick to a Few Scents at a Time
Overloading your senses with a dozen perfumes in one go will only leave you confused and overwhelmed. Limit yourself to three scents per visit and cleanse your nose between tests with coffee beans (most stores have them) or fresh air.
6. Match the Perfume to Your Lifestyle
A bold, sultry scent might be perfect for date nights, but would it work for your everyday office vibe? Consider where you’ll be wearing the perfume most often and choose a scent that fits seamlessly into your life.
7. Trust Your Instincts
At the end of the day, the right perfume is the one that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and you. Don’t second-guess yourself—if it sparks joy and feels right, it’s the one.
How to Choose a Perfume for a Gift
How to choose a perfume for a woman – or a man? Gifting perfume can be a thoughtful gesture, but it requires a little extra effort to get it right. Here are some tips to help you choose a fragrance that will make the recipient smile:
1. Think About Their Personality
Is the person bold and outgoing, or do they lean more toward subtle elegance? A vivacious friend might love a spicy or citrusy scent, while someone who prefers classic style might appreciate floral or powdery notes. Matching the perfume to their personality is a great starting point.
2. Observe Their Current Favorites
If possible, take note of the perfumes they already own. This can give you clues about the fragrance families they prefer, like woody, floral, or fruity. If you’re unsure, even spotting one or two bottles can help a sales assistant guide you in the right direction.
3. Opt for a Versatile Scent
When in doubt, go for a fragrance that’s versatile and universally loved. Fresh, clean scents or soft florals are generally safe bets because they’re not overpowering and appeal to a wide range of preferences.
4. Consider Smaller Sizes
Perfume preferences can be deeply personal, so choosing a smaller bottle or a gift set with miniatures is wise. This gives them the option to try it out without the pressure of committing to a full-size bottle.
5. Include a Gift Receipt
Let’s face it—perfume is subjective. Including a gift receipt ensures they can exchange it for something they’ll truly adore if it doesn’t suit them.
Final Thoughts About Choosing a Perfume
Perfume shopping—whether for yourself or as a gift—doesn’t have to feel like guesswork. By taking your time, trusting your instincts, and keeping the recipient (or yourself) in mind, you can find a fragrance that feels just right. Happy scent hunting!
